Have you ever felt moved to tears by a touching commercial or overwhelmed in a crowded, noisy room? Maybe you’ve felt deeply affected by someone else’s mood or found solace in noticing beauty where others might not. If so, you might have wondered: am I just emotional, or could I be a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP)?

HSP describes a personality trait rather than a medical diagnosis. Coined in the 1990s, it identifies people who experience heightened sensitivity to their environment and emotions. 

Research suggests that 20-30% of people might qualify as HSPs, which explains why social media is abuzz with discussions about this trait. But what does it mean and how can you tell if you fall into this category?

HSPs process the world more deeply than others. This includes noticing subtle details, reacting strongly to emotional experiences, and feeling drained by overstimulating environments like busy streets or loud concerts. 

It’s not just emotional sensitivity; their nervous systems are more reactive, which makes them more aware of external stimuli, whether it’s the texture of clothes, overpowering scents, or even caffeine.

Common traits of an HSP 

• Feeling emotions intensely (theirs and of others)
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• Struggling in high-pressure environments
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• Craving alone time to recharge after socialising
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• Noticing details others might miss, like a shift in tone or body language
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• Being moved deeply by music, art, and stories

If this sounds like you, you’re not alone. Many HSPs describe their sensitivity as both a gift and a challenge. It allows them to experience joy and beauty profoundly, but can also make everyday stressors, such as a harsh comment or sensory overload, feel overwhelming.

It’s important to note that while HSP traits might overlap with those of conditions like autism or Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD), they are not the same. 

Autism involves a broader spectrum of characteristics, including challenges with social communication and routine-based behaviour, whereas being an HSP is purely about sensitivity to stimuli and emotions. Consulting a professional is critical if your traits align with something more clinical.

Why are we all so fascinated by labels like HSPs? In today’s world, where social media encourages self-reflection and self-discovery, many people turn to these frameworks to better understand themselves.

Identifying as an HSPs can feel validating, offering a lens through which to view past experiences that might have felt confusing or isolating.

For HSPs, managing sensitivity often means learning to set boundaries and create a lifestyle that supports their needs. 

This might involve saying no to environments that feel overstimulating, prioritising rest, and finding calming routines to counterbalance emotional intensity. With the right balance, sensitivity can become a superpower, enhancing creativity, empathy, and connection with others.

Whether or not you identify as an HSP, sensitivity reminds you of the depth of human experience. It’s okay to feel deeply or be affected by the world around you. After all, understanding yourself is less about fitting into a label and more about embracing what makes you ‘you’.

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